Can anyone explain this inconsistency?

If you ert that premarital and adultery are wrong, you're okay, but if you ert that between two people of the same is wrong, you're a "bigot," "hatemonger," "," etc., Gay , fornication, and adultery are all exactly the same to me and I don't understand how objections to gay are any more sadistic than objections to the other two ual behaviors. Can anyone explain this distinction? What makes behavior different from fornication or adultery?